A Little Kindness Can Make Someone's Day
A Reflection by Fred Schaeffer, OFS
In a few days we will be celebrating the Solemnity of the Birth of Jesus Christ. For most people, Christmas will be very short given the commercial hoopla that seems to try to "hide" the true meaning of Christmas every year. We prepare to receive Our Lord Jesus Christ in our midst, as we do every time we receive Him in the Holy Eucharist. I invite you, this year, to make Christmas a very special time, not from the commercial point of view, but from the worthiness of your soul to receive Him. If that means receiving the Sacrament of Reconciliation, then please do so. For many Catholics, especially those who are not firm in their faith, Christmas is an opportunity to get back to Jesus.
It is not important why you stopped going to Holy Mass, if that is what you did. It is far more important that you return to the Sacraments, to relive the inner closeness you once had when Jesus was a frequent visitor in your life. If you are a Catholic who goes to Holy Mass on Sundays and on Holidays of Obligation, and perhaps even during the week, then you're "active" in the Church, and for that you will feel much inner peace. The amount of inner peace you enjoy is the leaven, if you will, to bring kindness and joy into your life, and into another person's life. Oftentimes that would be your spouse, children, grandchildren, brothers or sisters, and if you were "retired," like myself, you would find other ways. Like writing an uplifting article about "making someone's day" through kindness.
St. Francis of Assisi is a very popular saint. He is known not only in the Catholic world, but he is also popular in many Christian churches and communities. He is known for humility, meekness, kindness, he is the patron saint of peace, environment, animals, merchants, and a couple of other things, and even countries, such as the Philippines. Probably of several other places also.
He is often pictured attending to Jesus on the Cross. he shared the wounds of Christ on the Cross, the Sacred Stigmata. He had great compassion and empathy in dealing with all sorts of people, people who were strangers, and who were very poor, and even lepers. In his day, lepers were outcasts. They were miserable, neglected, they were not allowed in the towns. They were repugnant due to open sores on their bodies in a time where there was great lack of medical knowledge about most diseases. St. Francis made sure that the lepers were cared for and he fed them, washed and hugged them personally.
Many people who are chronically unemployed, penniless, roughing it by the side of the road, if you will, they too are looked upon as outcasts. If St. Francis was here today, many of these people would get his help. At our Franciscan fraternities, we try to help out in providing food for the poor by running or helping at soup-kitchens or donating foodstuffs to a parish or other organization that is directly involved in feeding the poor. However, in my fraternity, none of us are very wealthy, and so the financial contributions we provide is not enough to feed just one person for any length of time. But we try. There are other ways you can help other people. They are subtle ways... have you tried a little kindness lately? It does wonders!!! It's not that I am particularly a "people watcher," but I am generally aware what goes on around me. And one thing I see more and more, are solemn and unsmiling faces, in restaurants, supermarkets and malls in particular, and other common places. Admittedly, there is less to smile about these days. As long as our government tries to tell us the economy is getting better, when there are so many poor people without anything, particularly the retired, who are beleaguered with ever increasing costs while their income, often just social security, is fixed and thus remains almost the same year after year. I live from paycheck to paycheck, and it's a struggle to make ends meet. So I know what I'm talking about.
This Christmas Season, let's all try very hard to be genuine to other people and to bring the Good News of the birth of Jesus to all we know. We are bombarded with umpteen e-mails asking to be forwarded all over the place... take what is really in your heart, and send your friends e-mails, NOT of messages that came from someone else, but messages that originate with you, in the Holy Spirit, using this means as a prayer to bring a little kindness in someone’s day. To see a big smile on another person, a genuine smile, that always makes my day!
May the Lord bless You and Keep You!
A Blessed Christmas to all!
Fred Schaeffer, OFS
Dec. 22, 2023